So I received a couple of questions like "I just got dumped by a guy I like , what do I do?" and " my boyfriend just broke up with me , how do I move on?"
I'm just gonna give some pointers on how to forget about that asshole .
Stop talking to that person .
It is very hard to get over your feelings for that special someone especially when you are still in contact with him/her . The first step should be completely removing that person's existence for awhile because if you are in contact someone , you would still have a connection going on and to break that is to not have any form of reminder or conversation with him/her and removing him/her out of your life. Even if he/she comes crawling back to you , giving you a million reasons to forgive them and reignite an old flame , kick them off , shut them out, BE COLD HEARTED UNLESS YOU WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN.If they start using excuses such as "I will change for you" , REMEMBER THIS: Change takes time , it does not happen over-night nor a month, it always takes a whole lot of time and you have no time for empty promises.
Set your priorities right.
Know what you wanna do with your life and work towards your goal . It's better to keep yourself occupied with things you want to do than sittin' there dealing with the painful flashbacks.
Bitch about that person to your besties.
You will never do any wrong in the eyes of your bestfriend so let it alllllll gooooo . It's so much easier to get over someone when you only remember about the bad things they did . It's not the best way but still ..
Leisure activities
Go out with your buddies , go to the beach and cycle , game ,party, do what ever you like to do. Spend the time you that you were deprived of when you're in a relationship and see all the better things in life .
Have a positive mindset
Wake up in the morning telling yourself that it is a good day today . YOLO . There's always a better catch out there you just have to open your heart
Make yourself a better person
Instead of laying around asking why you don't get a good girlfriend/boyfriend and be jealous of someone else's relationship , make yourself THAT PERFECT girl/guy . The definition is too broad but you get what I'm trying to say . Who knows , maybe your next relationship would be the one that lasts forever , maybe you'll find THE ONE for you when time passes by . Upgrade yourself if you want someone better .
Everybody is unique in their own way . People change over time , there's always room for second chances if you think it is really worth it . Not everybody gets it right on the first try, experiment and learn ways you can make your partner stay with you , convince that person you are worth it. Then again, you can't hold hands with someone who isn't willing to give that hand to you . Fall in love , keep an open mind and heart , you'll never know what would pop up around the corner .
